dating tips

BE REALISTIC and don't just rely on physical attributes. We have many stories of people whose eventual partner was nothing like the one they described in the first place.

Remember it takes time to get to know people and the ones that grow on you slowly are usually the best and most successful. Instant chemistry can very often wear off instantly too.

DON'T look on every new date as a possible future partner. You may miss out on friendship, which is equally important when rebuilding your life.

BE PATIENT, because the membership base is constantly changing and it can take time to find that special person.

BE AS BROAD AS YOU CAN in your criteria and you'll meet lots of lovely people.

DON'T discuss previous 'ex's' - your date is there to hear about you. Also never discuss any past medical problems - you'll be surprised how many do. There's nothing more off putting on a date than to hear about someone's past illnesses or aches and pains!